tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2520887132511317593.post195749340070492994..comments2023-08-19T03:46:30.266-04:00Comments on Writing is my therapy: Friend of convenience?Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01277169291939140377noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2520887132511317593.post-74609423018872240552009-02-12T10:51:00.000-05:002009-02-12T10:51:00.000-05:00Personally I would call her back but not expect or...Personally I would call her back but not expect or develop a close relationship with her. I know you were once really close, but people change and grow. I don't want you to get hurt if she is MIA again.<BR/><BR/>I value every friend that I have ever had, but I acknowledge that sometime things were not meant to last forever.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14978375225313974459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2520887132511317593.post-59528656921311783972009-02-12T07:12:00.000-05:002009-02-12T07:12:00.000-05:00As much as I hate loosing friendships with people,...As much as I hate loosing friendships with people, sometimes you just have to know that you don't matter enough to them and they are always going to have excuses so I don't go the extra mile anymore. They get birthday and Christmas cards and maybe a message once in a while just saying hi. <BR/><BR/>I would try again maybe calling her back and trying to meet up for dinner or something, and if she continues to act this way I would stop. <BR/><BR/>Hope things can be saved.erin - heart in irelandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10633678379509475658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2520887132511317593.post-30043319495457530752009-02-11T23:28:00.000-05:002009-02-11T23:28:00.000-05:00I JUST had a long conversation with a friend about...I JUST had a long conversation with a friend about this same issue. My friend and I have a hard time just letting go and cutting off all contact yet you don't want to bother someone who no longer has any interest in being friends. I usually just try to let it go and maybe check in on holidays or birthdays and see how the other person responds.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com